Hypnosis Suggestion Formulation and Application Part 3by Charles E. Henderson, Ph.D.
(Continued from Part 2)
One way to cut some of this verbiage down is to use image suggestions.
That is, form a picture in your mind of what you want, the way
you want to look, what you want to be doing, how you want to be
doing it, and so on. But you still need some verbal suggestions
because images can be ambiguous, and some goals are difficult
to "see." For example, what do you look like when you
have quit smoking? What do you look like when you are not wanting
a cigarette? No different from what you look like when you want
one, unfortunately. So you will still have to formulate verbal
suggestions for most achievements.
Organ language. Organ language refers to any semantic
reference to any part of the human body. All languages abound
in this kind of reference. Examples are expressions like "get
a leg up" (gain the advantage), "up to my neck in (whatever)"
(overcome by too much or too many (whatever), "butt heads with"
(oppose someone), "lend an ear" (listen), and "elbow
grease" (hard work).
There have been many cases reported in which organ language was
ultimately determined to be the source of the problem. The subconscious
mind's literal translation of body-related statements can lead
to some silly sounding, but nonetheless severe, situations:
- A man who was prone to severe headaches whenever his brother-in-law
was around. He had often made the statement that his brother-in-law
was a pain in the neck.
- A young lady whose stomach troubles, as identified in ideomotor
questioning, were related to her mother's frequent statements
to her that "all you ever do is bellyache." (This case
points out that organ language is not limited to oneself. Be careful
about expressions you use repeatedly with your kids and with other
people in general.)
- A woman's skin condition-a rash and persistent itch that resisted
all pharmaceutical treatment-which was the result of an over-used
cliché. She was a cleanliness freak and whenever someplace
did not meet her standards she would say that it "made her
itch."
- A man who, shortly after his fiancee jilted him, began to
have serious chest pains. Tests found nothing wrong with him,
but psychotherapy uncovered a relationship between the pains and
the word "heartache." This illustrates the fact that
organ language can cause problems without an expression being
"said" over and over. "Heartache" is one of
our prevalent cultural icons and need not necessarily be said
to be a source of trouble.
The lesson from all of this is twofold: Carefully avoid any reference
to body parts in the formulation of suggestion unless that is
exactly what you want and mean, and check for the influence of
organ language if you have mysterious problems (see Ideomotor
Questioning below).
Subconscious Resistance
The subconscious part of your mind is there to protect you. It
would not be doing a very good job if it changed willy-nilly all
the time. It is difficult to accept when we want to lose weight
or get rich and famous, but the subconscious mind actually does
its job best by resisting all change.
It is this characteristic of the subconscious mind that helps
keep people in the land of the living and the sane (well, some
of us, anyway). It also this characteristics that drives you to
distraction when you want to do something but your subconscious
won't let you, like quit smoking or lose weight or any of the
other things that seem to be so difficult.
Much of the talk above about making things worse with suggestion
is really a reference to the resistance of the subconscious mind
that can be triggered. Look at it this way. You represent a species
of organism that has evolved over many thousands of years. You
are the both the recipient and embodiment of innumerable genetic
and cultural characteristics that have proved to be successful
in the past. That is, you are here because your ancestors survived.
(Just think: Going back all the way to the first humans, not one
of your ancestors died before giving birth to the next level of
your ancestry, down to you.) Therefore what you represent must
be mostly good because you are the latest product of an immensely
complicated evolutionary process. (Or near the end if you have
already proved yourself capable of being an ancestor by having
children.)
Now, don't get the impression that I am saying that the subconscious
mind works its way through this kind of logic to arrive at its
position. Frankly I don't think it could. What I am trying to
present here is a rationalization for why the subconscious makes
the best survival mechanism if it resists change.
(On the other hand, maybe life is absurdly simple and all living
things including us are simply a gene's way of making more genes.)
So you can expect subconscious resistance to change. The best
you can do is minimize the change when possible, and deal with
it when it does block progress, or when it makes things worse.
Latitude of Acceptance
There is almost always a latitude of acceptance for change at
the subconscious level. This is the window of possibility, the
amount of change that the subconscious will find acceptable at
any given time. If you confine your change efforts to these windows
you will not trigger subconscious resistance.
Once the change you want is in place, the window moves up and
you can start working on the next level within the window. In
this manner you ratchet your way up the ladder of change one rung
at a time, rather than trying to soar to the top all at once.
Think of it in terms of degrees of change. Let's say that you
want to make more money and you are going to apply suggestions
to that effect. Your suggestions, by the way, should be directed
not just at making more money, but toward 1) raising the limits
that your subconscious mind finds acceptable; and 2) the behaviors
that lead to increased income. If you don't know what behaviors
would lead to increased income, then you need to work on suggestions
that you will learn and become aware of those behaviors. (I refer
to this latter category of suggestion as Discovery Suggestions.)
Let's say further that you made $25,000 last year, just to pick
a number. The fact that you made $25,000 last year and did not
have a problem with it (we will assume) means that that figure
is an acceptable one to your subconscious mind. Now you want to
up the ante. But you definitely do not want to jump up to a figure
that will trigger subconscious resistance. If you do, you probably
will not even make as much as you did last year. The subconscious
can be fiendishly clever about thwarting the achievement of goals
that it finds threatening. You can almost be guaranteed that this
will happen if you, say, double the figure and shoot for $50,000.
You have to do it by degrees. Get in a hurry and you will end
up going backwards.
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